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Wednesday, January 4, 2017

The Year of Needy Girls



by Patricia A. Smith
Akashic Books     2017
333 pages     Literary Fiction

Two disasters happened in my small city of Kalamazoo in 2016 that upended the city—an Uber driver went on a rampage, shot and murdered several people, and a drunk and overdosed driver plowed into a group of bicyclists, killing several as well.  How a city responds to a major problem can determine the character of the city. In the case of Kalamazoo, both compassion and outrage led to policy and city ordinance changes that will make the city better. In Bradley, Massachusetts, on the other hand, outrage over homosexuality and murder threaten to destroy the fabric of the town. The town became divided between "us and them," leaving disaster in its wake. The Year of Needy Girls explores how a community responds to crisis.

Like many towns, Bradley has poor people, immigrants, and middle and elite classes. Deidre, a teacher, wants to live and work on the right side of town. Her partner SJ, a librarian, seeks to find meaningful work in the poorer section of the community. From the outside, their relationship is secure; their employers know that they are lesbians and are accepting of it. However, inside the house, the couple is drifting apart, keeping secrets from each other,  and feeling the stress of trying to maintain a normal life within the community.

There are several story lines at play in Patricia Smith's The Year of Needy Girls, which was published yesterday. Maybe too many. A young boy disappears and is discovered sexually assaulted and dead several days later. The town becomes very fearful for its children. Then Deidre, who works in a private girl's high school is accused of molesting one of her students, and the terror the community is feeling over the death of the young boy erupts into ugliness and homophobia. Everyone suffers from the fallout although the resulting witch hunt lacks tension and suspense, which leaves the reader feeling rather blah.

The tension in the plot is all internal, both for the characters and for the reader. We know from the outset what is going to happen, and in general, we know how the characters are going to respond.  Publisher's Weeklysays that Smith's "crisp prose and dedication to realistic moral ambiguity" makes for an interesting read. I understood and related to the moral ambiguity, but as a retired teacher, I knew that Deidre was too dedicated to her students and was constantly being too accommodating and affectionate with the "needy girls" at the school. Something was bound to happen, and her own ambiguity over her response to the girls was very disquieting. One of the first things a teacher learns is to not get emotionally attached to your students—and to NEVER hug a student. The tragedy of the book is that Deidre's brilliant and dedicated teaching gets lost in scandal.

The reviewer in Kirkus Reviews felt that the author was attempting to do too much and the plot was too easily resolved. A much better exploration of women teachers in private girls' schools is The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie by Spark. Mystic River by Lehane explores with much more tension the abduction and sexual exploitation of a child. I am not sure that I can wholeheartedly recommend The Year of Needy Girls, but read the reviews, borrow the book from the library, and make your own appraisal. 

Just as I was posting this review, I opened today's Washington Post. The headline article was about an elementary teacher and his husband who were accused of abusing 8 boys. They killed themselves to avoid the investigation and prosecution. So, the topic of teachers and sexual exploitation is not going away, and teachers need to be extremely vigilant as they work with their students. On that topic, Patricia Smith's exploration is valuable and insightful.

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships



by Matthew Vines
Convergent Books     2014
213 pages     Spiritual

God and the Gay Christian is written by a young, conservative Christian gay man. Within the framework of Biblical exegesis, Vines takes on the scriptures that are traditionally used to speak against homosexuality. He looks at the verses and shows how they are taken out of context, or how they couldn't possibly have meant what the nit-picky Bible reader thinks they mean, or how the values portrayed in isolated verses of the  scripture have no meaning for today's world. This is a young man on a search for his own Christian faith, for his own values, and for his own understanding of who he is as a gay man. Frankly, a PhD Biblical scholar could not have done a better job.

Vines explains the historical context of the scriptures and offers an interpretation that helps the Christian form a new opinion about their gay Christian brethren. He calls those who decry homosexuality in Christ's name "non-affirming," but his primary attempt is to help his own family come to an understanding of their son and brother as a child of God. "While we are infinitely small in the grand scheme of things, we also have intrinsic value. This belief is shared in some form by many cultures and worldviews, and . . . it is deeply embedded in the Christian faith. The Bible teaches that, as human beings, we are made in the image of God, a doctrine that Christians have long understood to form the basis of our inherent value." If that is the case, then we are ALL formed in God's image. This is how we find our worth, and when we tell our homosexual brethren that there is something wrong with them, we are denying them their infinite worth. He says, "In the final analysis, it is not gay Christians who are sinning against God by entering into monogamous, loving relationships. It is WE who are sinning against them by rejecting their intimate relationships."

Much of what he discusses I learned long ago in seminary. However, often what preachers learn in seminary is not what they preach, and even if they learn the historical context of the scripture, they tend to take the scripture at face value when they preach from the Bible. After I read a positive review of the book on the Pathos website, which appears to be a progressive website, I then turned to a more conservative review, which of course, sought to downplay the book and threaten that Vines had perverted the scripture for his own gain. It was hard to concentrate on the negative review on The Christian Post website because of the Claritin, Tampax and toothpaste ads that blared loudly in the background. I had to wonder who was perverting the scriptures—Vines or The Christian Post.

Vines writes like a Biblical scholar—actually he is a self-trained Biblical scholar. His words are refreshing, and the time is right for the message of Bible to be looked at through fresh eyes. I commend his work to you. It could very well be that his book could turn the conversation around among conservative Christians. 

Recently, I went with several family members to a presentation of the video Seventh-Gay Adventists. While the screening was at a Quaker meeting house, most of the people in attendance were young Seventh Day Adventists. We were invited by our friend Beth, a deeply devout Christian woman who happens to be a Lesbian in a committed relationship. I was struck by the power of the documentary and the conundrum that the three people profiled found themselves in. They wanted to be part of the religious community, but the shortsightedness of the church confounded them. Of course, as the mother of a gay man, I just wanted to shake these people. "Can't you see?" my mind yelled at the screen. "These are children of God that you are rejecting because of your own stupidity." I would recommend this documentary as a companion piece to the book God and the Gay Christian.

Here is a link to the documentary: https://www.youtube.com/user/sgamovie
 For a summary of the chapters read the review on the Pathos website: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/exploringourmatrix/2014/05/review-of-god-and-the-gay-christian.html
Matthew Vines website: www.matthewvines.com